These are just too casual for a date…plus you’re giving him a great view of your butt…unless that’s what you’re trying to do. Don’t wear leggings unless you have a dress/blouse over the top that covers your bottom.
For some reason, guys seriously hate the look of these pants. We know they’re comfy and can even be worn in a business setting, but just avoid them for a date. Men don’t like flowy stuff unless it shows off your curves. And harem pants definitely don’t do that.